People are not disposable….

It is no secret that this past few years has been nothing but a train wreck straight from hell.  I often think to myself that I will one day wake up and this will have all been a dream and I will step back and will have my happy little family back again.  Then I slap myself to reality and remember that I must remember the good days to get through the bad days.

I have not wrote much about my divorce for several months, because every time I would say something I lived in fear that it could be considered slander, or every time I posted something people would say I was whining, bashing, or just being a baby. 

Today, I have decided to speak up and speak loudly.  I am NOT whining, bashing, or being a baby the ending of my marriage was nearly devastating.  I loved my husband with all my heart, I think many of my readers can recall how I spoke about him, posted photos of him and the kids, and I was always anxious for him to come home at the end of the week.  He was the one person I thought would always have my back, and then I realized that Satan could and had pulled him away.  There were times over the past year I would see glimpse of hope or the “old” him, and then they were always followed by the “other” him.

Hello Single Mommahood!

So it is "official" okay technically not official, but it has been declared that I am on my way or well already living as a SINGLE Momma.   While this is no laughing matter, especially not to my kids and I, it is still something I have to live with.  Many people think that reality has not sunk in on me and that one day I will find myself weeping into my pillow worried about how I will survive.  I cannot guarantee I will never do that, but like many marriages, relationships, and life situations we see change coming and we embrace it.....I know many of you are shocked and I do apologize that it appeared we were the perfect family one day and giant mess the next.  I suppose we all deal with life in our own ways and my personal coping method has been to believe things will get better if I think they are better.....well that did not work!

PLEASE Respect our Privacy...

I have delayed commenting about this, and I have feared saying much of anything, but I have realized others are talking for me, so I must speak up for the sake of our children.

I know many of you follow my family and I either here on our blogs, on Facebook, twitter, or even at the grocery store and I know lately you have noticed things are not exactly the  same.  I refuse to share details or deal with twisted tales for the sake of my 2 darling angels that don’t deserve to deal with anything negative.

Ryan and I, much like many other marriages, have came to a time that we can no longer agree on everything in life.  With that said our disagreements are between us, not us and the world, us and our children, or even us and anyone else.  We have a firm belief that no matter what happens in the end everything we do in life, rather publicly or inside our home affects our children.  At the end of the day, no matter how we feel about each other, Celesse and Dillard deserve the best life ever and should only know happy days full of adventures. 

 From you my readers, my friends, my family I ask of you to please respect our privacy as gossip, hateful tales, and talk does not hurt Ryan or me, but it does hurt those 2 little faces that have done nothing wrong in life.  Please give us space, love, laughter, and days full of good wholesome excitement while we work through this, as negativity only does harm and positive thoughts brings strength.   

I know many of you may ask now, what happens here on Adventures Among Us, and my other blogs, well the story goes on.  We do have a summer full of adventures planned, and just like your job and everyday life goes on, ours does to. 

We thank you in advance for your respect, or your kind thoughts, and abundance of love. 

Becky & Ryan